Her Pediatrician referred us to Shriner's Hopsital for Children. They specialize in pediatric orthopedic
treatments. We are so fortunate to live so close to a Shriner’s
hospital(about 17miles) Her first appt at Shriners was
when she was just a week old. At that appt her Orthopedic Dr (Dr. R)told us
right away it was Fibular Hemimelia. I immediately asked is she could write
that down, as I never thought I would remember it. Now I can say it and
spell it just like it was her name. At that
first appt Dr. R told us there are options and as she grew and we
could see the severity of her malformation, that we would evaluate it in a few months and go from there.
There was nothing to do at this time- just enjoy her being a baby and to
come back when she is 3mo old for x-rays.
The
options she told us about were Limb lengthening or amputation. Dr. R mainly wanted us to
know that amputation was an option- as she knew we were going to go
home and Google it and we were going see that word. I did go home that
night and I did Google. Right away I found a couple of blogs by mothers with young children that were born with
FH and a Face book support group for
FH, one for FH and amputation and one for FH and Limb
lengthening. Over the next 3 months I read all I could and I my
husband and I had resigned her to multiple limb lengthening surgeries. As
amputation was a bad word in our house.
During these first few month we found out that this is the same condition as the 2012 Olympic
Runner from South Africa OscarPistorius. It was very inspiring to watch him run at the 2012 Summer Olympics knowing he didn't let his disabilities stop him. I also saw this story about a college Cheerleader with a 'zebra leg'. There were other stories on ESPN's Sportscenter that showed us there will be no limits to what she can do. Soccer or Softball. I also realized there were movies that were inspiring: Finding Nemo and Dolphin Tale. It made it easier to accept that this was going to be our new 'normal'.
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